How To Change Your Mindset With These 3 Tips

How To Change Your Mindset With These 3 Tips

How To Change Your Mindset With These 3 Tips

How To Change Your Mindset With These 3 Tips

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How To Change Your Mindset With These 3 Tips. Now keep in mind that I can tell you all the secrets in the world but if you don’t take the actions necessary to make the secrets work for you then there is nothing more I or anyone else can do.  You have to be the one that makes the decision to set the goal and reach it; it has to be your goal. Ready to learn how to change your mindset with these 3 tips? 

The first thing you need to do is take responsibility I don’t mean to sound harsh when I say this but you are where you are because of the choices you have made. My pastor once said where we are today is the outcome of a choice we made a year ago and the choice we make today will affect us a year from now. 

Example: say your running late for work and then you get stuck in traffic or get a flat tire on the way. How do you take responsibility for that? It’s simple, accept the fact that you could have gotten up the first time the alarm sounded instead of hitting the snooze button. You could have left 10 – 15 minutes early in case traffic happens to be backed up. When is the last time you checked your tires? Or had a routine car check-up? 

The second tip is to stop playing the blame gameDo you find yourself angry at the world when things never seem to go right? Or maybe you blame the world and everyone in it for the things that happen to you. It’s ok, I used to fall victim to this game too. Sometimes events that have occurred are out of our control and sometimes they are because of actions we either took or did not take along with choices we made or did not make. Here is a post I wrote where I took both responsibility and I stopped playing the blame game. 

Maybe you blame your parents or a spouse for your failures. Or just maybe you blame your boss because you didn’t get that promotion. Are you in sales? Are you struggling? Who’s fault is it? I think you get the point. At least I hope you do because the only person who has complete control in your life is you. Yes, You! 

The 3rd step is to start using afformations, yes afformations not affirmations. What is the difference you ask? Afformations is a different way of changing your mindset through words and phrases you state to yourself only in a question form. So, instead of saying  “I am successful” you would say or ask “Why am I so successful?” Try it. It makes you think about things you can do to help take action to get what it is you want. 

If you keep repeating things like “I make 6 figures a year” and you really only make $25,000 a year how many times will have to say “I make 6 figures a year” before you begin to believe it? I use to use affirmations all the time and the just didn’t work for me because I didn’t believe any of it. 

When I stumbled onto >>>> The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness <<<< I learned how effective using afformations really was. I haven’t looked back since. I highly suggest getting this book. After I bought this book I took what I learned from the book including the use of afformations and it changed my mindset in so many ways. I believe I even attracted my fiance’ using the afformations. 

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I sat down and wrote out everything I wanted in a man, a husband, and only focused on what I wanted; this is key. Next, I began asking myself questions like “Why does my future husband love me for who I am? Why am I so attracted to him and he to me? Why does my future husband laugh with me and not at me? Why do we have so much together?” These are just some of the questions I would ask myself when I thought about it. 

Not even 6 months later I met a man that swept me off my feet. We have so much fun together and he truly loves me for me. He loves my kids as they are his own and will do anything in the world for us. He tells me 100 times a day he loves me and that I am beautiful. He encourages me when I need it most, he believes in me and my crazy ideas, and he motivates me when I don’t feel so motivated. These are all things I wanted and I got. We are now engaged and getting married in August! 

If you read this post and you want more I suggest buying the book >>>> The Secret Code of Success: 7 Hidden Steps to More Wealth and Happiness <<<< I also suggest signing up for my 8 Day Transformation course. You can sign up below this post or sign up through the banner to the right (if your using desktop). 

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